Friday, 19 April 2013

Yes, You Are Important To Me!!

"What if we separate???? What if we ever fight and then never talk to each other??"

She made a so darn serious face and answered me-- I will miss your birthday treats!!

And after a pause,laughed out loud..!!

 Her antic reply again made me laugh and hug her!!
And you can guess that I actually don't need another reason to love her.  Yes she's my best friend and you can say we are the bff (best friend forever) types! Maddy (I gave her this nickname once we were in our school and this is actually an abbreviation of her name but more because of her real madness!! And yes,now more than half of the world knows her by this name,I guess!!)

                        An old pic!!

The fact is, I feel good when I am with her. And yes,the most important thing is I don't really have to think twice before saying something to her!! I can be the most "idiotic" person in front of her and I bet she never minds it (The fact that she too behaves so "immaturely" with me most of the times!!)

I must say that I have been lucky to have her!! I have never been  really lucky with friends but may be this is something which is God gifted to me!! And I pray everyone does have some one like her with them!!

We have been together always,we fight, but that really is nothing that can stop us from sending silly texts to each other after an hour or two!!

Apart from my family,may be she is the one who have been beside me more in my hard times and sorrows, and this is what has made me always share my every little joy with her!! She never judges me. I am lucky to have her as she loves me the way I am, and actually doesn't want me to change the way she wants!!

         Never really got a chance to say this to her and thus doing it here!! And that I really love you!!

I sometimes feel scared if I can always be with you when you need me like you have been with me!!

But I promise to be with you always!!!! (Specially when you give me treats!! :p Many of which are still pending!! :D)

Hope things will be the same even after 40 years from now!! I will always treasure you!! Love You for my life!! :) <3

And as you say "We rock!! (rock, eeet, paathor)" ( meaning stones!!), yes, we do rock together and our friendship is somewhat as genuine as a rock!! :)

Monday, 1 April 2013

Clustering Joy!!!! :)

We are so much busy always!! Not really knowing what we can actually do to curtail our distress. We never do get any leisure. And off course getting so means being the loser these days!!

We tend to lose our dreams and stop pursuing our hobbies and passions which we are so much in love with. But deep in our hearts we always miss those super upbeat passions. But according to me,the darn important thing in life is Being Happy always,no matter what it takes to. Time changes and so do people!! Sometimes the best of friendships break,sometimes you lose your job!! There's so much in life to deal with and to cry for!! But there's actually so much more to Live for and to love!!!!

I have learnt through my life that being happy is actually the most important thing in life. This is what brings  you the ultimate success, the ultimate thing you have so much wanted in your life!! Now,in my life I have pretty learnt to be happy in all kind of situations,specially when things are going so wrong always.

So, These are 12 really important points I feel which are needed to be Happy in life : (if you need them)

FIRST       Love yourself (And while you are at it, just sit and think about the stuffs at which you are best at!! What best things you have done in your life and feel happy about that!!)

SECOND   Love yourself (And while you are at it, list out the stuffs which you die for! It can be your hobbies,passions,just "time-pass", or anything you love to do!! And try out any one of them immediately.)


                    Love yourself ( And while you are at it,
                                                        Laugh hard. 
                                                        Laugh until your sides hurt.
                                                        Laugh until you cry.
                                                        Laugh with your entire body.

                                                        But, make sure you laugh.) :)

FOURTH   Love yourself (And while you are at it, Help a blind person to cross a road and reach him/her to his/her destination. Trust me,it will give you immense joy!! I speak from experience!!) :)

FIFTH        Love yourself (And while you are at it, Call up one of your very old friend with whom you have hardly talked over ages and just pour your heart out! )

SIXTH        Love yourself (And while you are at it, sit with your best friend and laugh over all the mischievous moments you both were upto once! Those are precious and can never come back. So live them once again! )

SEVENTH   Love yourself (And while you are at it, Help some really needy people out there. Provide them with food and clothes which they really need and trust me,it will provide you with happiness and self respect!)

EIGHTH     Love yourself (And while you are at it, Tell your mom and dad how much they mean to you. That they are the most special people you have in your life.) ( Same goes,if you have children. Tell them how much you love them!! )

NINTH       Love yourself (And while you are at it, call someone you have hurt and say a big sorry to him/her. Make them feel that you are really sorry for what you had done and please don't lie!!)

TENTH       Love yourself (And while you are at it, say a big Thank you to someone who have done something to make you happy,knowingly or unknowingly, and make them feel special about it!! Because they kinda deserve it.. )

 ELEVENTH    Love yourself (And while you are at it, Be POSITIVE at every points of your life, even if things seem devastating!! Keep faith and go on. Nothing lasts forever, nor even sorrows!! So cheer up!! Take it as a lesson and move on!!!!)

Things will be alright at the end and if its not ok ,its probably not the end!! :)

TWELVETH     Love yourself (And while you are at it, Don't mind if someone has to say anything about you!! Its just their own opinion and it shouldn't be a darn issue for you!! You know what you are and so just be happy!!)

We often fail to be happy at times but we  must at least try to be happy!! Things will automatically turn out to be good if you are confident and happy!! :)

So,cheers and here we go,trying out each of them if you have failed to do them of late!! :)