Monday, 1 April 2013

Clustering Joy!!!! :)

We are so much busy always!! Not really knowing what we can actually do to curtail our distress. We never do get any leisure. And off course getting so means being the loser these days!!

We tend to lose our dreams and stop pursuing our hobbies and passions which we are so much in love with. But deep in our hearts we always miss those super upbeat passions. But according to me,the darn important thing in life is Being Happy always,no matter what it takes to. Time changes and so do people!! Sometimes the best of friendships break,sometimes you lose your job!! There's so much in life to deal with and to cry for!! But there's actually so much more to Live for and to love!!!!

I have learnt through my life that being happy is actually the most important thing in life. This is what brings  you the ultimate success, the ultimate thing you have so much wanted in your life!! Now,in my life I have pretty learnt to be happy in all kind of situations,specially when things are going so wrong always.


So, These are 12 really important points I feel which are needed to be Happy in life : (if you need them)


FIRST       Love yourself (And while you are at it, just sit and think about the stuffs at which you are best at!! What best things you have done in your life and feel happy about that!!)


SECOND   Love yourself (And while you are at it, list out the stuffs which you die for! It can be your hobbies,passions,just "time-pass", or anything you love to do!! And try out any one of them immediately.)

THIRD   

                    Love yourself ( And while you are at it,
                                                        Laugh hard. 
                                                        Laugh until your sides hurt.
                                                        Laugh until you cry.
                                                        Laugh with your entire body.

                                                        But, make sure you laugh.) :)




FOURTH   Love yourself (And while you are at it, Help a blind person to cross a road and reach him/her to his/her destination. Trust me,it will give you immense joy!! I speak from experience!!) :)



FIFTH        Love yourself (And while you are at it, Call up one of your very old friend with whom you have hardly talked over ages and just pour your heart out! )


SIXTH        Love yourself (And while you are at it, sit with your best friend and laugh over all the mischievous moments you both were upto once! Those are precious and can never come back. So live them once again! )


SEVENTH   Love yourself (And while you are at it, Help some really needy people out there. Provide them with food and clothes which they really need and trust me,it will provide you with happiness and self respect!)


EIGHTH     Love yourself (And while you are at it, Tell your mom and dad how much they mean to you. That they are the most special people you have in your life.) ( Same goes,if you have children. Tell them how much you love them!! )



NINTH       Love yourself (And while you are at it, call someone you have hurt and say a big sorry to him/her. Make them feel that you are really sorry for what you had done and please don't lie!!)



TENTH       Love yourself (And while you are at it, say a big Thank you to someone who have done something to make you happy,knowingly or unknowingly, and make them feel special about it!! Because they kinda deserve it.. )


 ELEVENTH    Love yourself (And while you are at it, Be POSITIVE at every points of your life, even if things seem devastating!! Keep faith and go on. Nothing lasts forever, nor even sorrows!! So cheer up!! Take it as a lesson and move on!!!!)


Things will be alright at the end and if its not ok ,its probably not the end!! :)

TWELVETH     Love yourself (And while you are at it, Don't mind if someone has to say anything about you!! Its just their own opinion and it shouldn't be a darn issue for you!! You know what you are and so just be happy!!)



We often fail to be happy at times but we  must at least try to be happy!! Things will automatically turn out to be good if you are confident and happy!! :)


So,cheers and here we go,trying out each of them if you have failed to do them of late!! :)



MUCH LOVE!! :)




6 comments:

  1. Thanks for the wonderful write up(10 rule), guess this is the age of upgrades and your 12 commandments to be happy is just brilliant, love yourself..!

    Tell your mom and dad how much they mean to you. That they are the most special people you have in your life... cent percent agreed..!

    Keep writing,cheers

    josh

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    1. Can. I send a friend request on fb..?!

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    2. Actually I'm there for my friends and family!! :)

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  2. when is the next blog... waiting :)

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